No, part of my role as your advocate is to inform you of your rights and guide you through the process of having your child evaluated if you or someone who works directly with them are suspecting a disability.
No, your child is entitled to an evaluation under IDEA. Some parents choose to have a private evaluation completed but the school district still has the right to review any reports that are generated.
The parent input section is extremely valuable. It is a way to document your concerns and your goals for your child. I recommend typing up a parent input statement prior to the meeting so you can provide your input to the team in writing versus in real-time. Don't forget parents are an equal member of their child's IEP or 504 team.
First and foremost, the first word in IEP is individualized. The services that students receive is based on their level of need and should not be based on staff availability, convenience or 'what has always been done.' I would request an IEP meeting to review the present data and determine what the student actually needs.